where's all the hot genuine single ladies gone?

joined gaydar girls to make friends and to possibly meet that special someone but only really got a few messages, some explicit , which i don't really want. Some of us aren't all about cyber sex and one night stands. Some of us just want to meet genuine people who are great to be around. I hope I get better responses soon. been out of the dating game for a while but isn't there someone out there perfect for me? i bloody well hope so..x