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I am the youngest of four children, an auntie of 13. I love my job, mostly, lets say its a challenge.

Monday, 20 December 2010

One of my fav Quotes ~ by Virginia Satir ~

~I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it -- I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know -- but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.~ by Virginia Satir ~

Thursday, 16 December 2010

Being Single

Approaching Xmas and wishing I was not single but then I suddenly remember why I'm single and I dont feel so bad.....No one can tell me what to do, how to do it, or when to do it. I'm single, I can do what the hell I like now and it's great...x

Friday, 26 November 2010

L8 convention

Got a gold ticket to L word convention in march 2011 in brighton

going on my own again like I did for L6 but met a few great ladies the last time i was there, hopefully i will again. anyone else going? x


was slightly upset jennifer beals not attending anymore but laurel holloman taking her place n heather peace is now attending, n the rest of the guests are a plus.love janina, she is so sweet n funny...x

where's all the hot genuine single ladies gone?

joined gaydar girls to make friends and to possibly meet that special someone but only really got a few messages, some explicit , which i don't really want. Some of us aren't all about cyber sex and one night stands. Some of us just want to meet genuine people who are great to be around. I hope I get better responses soon. been out of the dating game for a while but isn't there someone out there perfect for me? i bloody well hope so..x

Who's your favorite musician?


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Would you rather get up early or sleep late?

depends on my mood...x

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What would be the best workplace perk?

free tea...lol...x

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What was the most interesting place you've traveled to?


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Friday, 8 October 2010

What TV show makes you laugh the loudest?

L Word or Queer As Folk UK and US...x

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Back on the market

My relationship of almost 12 yrs has ended not that long ago but its time to put myself back out there but I can't help but wonder if Ive forgotten how to date. x :(

Thursday, 7 October 2010

If you could wake up as anyone tomorrow, who would it be?

I don't wanna be anybody but me...x

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Who's the most underrated musician?

janina gavankar @janinaz and I'm not just saying that, she has a beautiful voice and is multi-talented....x

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Wednesday, 6 October 2010

Tattoos ? Got any and if so Where?

I have three, I have Chinese writing on my upper left arm, little linked hearts around my belly button and a butterfly on my right shoulder. Ive got three more planned...x

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Tuesday, 5 October 2010

Do you have any scars on your body? If so, how'd you get them?

I got a small one next to my ear when I picked a chicken pock,got a burn mark on my right hand, where I burned it in the oven in cooking class in first year. Don't know if its still there but I had a small mark on my behind from when I fell in barbed wire...I also have a mark on one of my toes when I kicked my ghetto blaster...lol...x

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If you had to give up one favorite food, what would the most difficult?

not really a food but a drink, Irn Bru is my last vice...x

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What was your first paying job?

packing screws in to bags for computer kits...x

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Would you rather be rich or famous?


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Tuesday, 9 March 2010


As I lay starring up at the stars
I can see images of you and me together
I can feel your body against mine
I can feel you caressing my breasts
and I can feel your lips against mine

You ran your finger tips along my thigh
and your gentle touch made me shiver
You made me feel as though I was being touched for the first time
You made me feel pleasure beyond my comprehension

we were together from dusk until dawn
that was a night I will never forget


I love your eyes
I love your smile
I love the way you walk
I love the way you talk
I love who you are
I love everything about you
I hate that you're not with me